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February 2013

Rants, Feelings & Opinions

How Not To Make Money

February 26, 2013

Some people are good at making money. I’m not one of them. Just talking about money makes me profoundly uncomfortable–a fact that makes being paid for things pretty tricky! When I was younger this wasn’t really an issue, since money wasn’t something I necessarily wanted or cared about–when you’re 21, being a poor, hustling scavenger who eats out of supermarket garbage bins just makes you feel edgy/resourceful. However, as you get older, being broke starts to make you feel like…

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SEXUAL INTERNET ART

February 22, 2013

A lot of cool kidz in downtown NYC are making internet art these days. Internet art is very #relevant. Think 90s, think warehouse raves, think platforms, think neon dolphins, think ying-yangs, think marble cell phone covers, think My So Called Life, think sea punk, think dip-dye, think gifs, think crop tops, think reversible jackets, think mp3s, think transsexual rappers, think inverted crosses, think hashtags, think those creepy contacts that have a smiley face in them, etc. THIS IS WHAT’S INSPIRING…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever for Jezebel

February 22, 2013

Read my latest sex advice column, originally written for Jezebel! Hey. How do you manage your blackouts? Like, blackout drunk? Also, how would you deal with a somewhat famous dude who’s coked up and wanting pics of your naked body? Thanks, KC Wow, what a classy question. Look KC, being a blacked-out bar ho is not a sign of a strong feminist who’s in control of her destiny. Also, what if you’re blacked-out and a party photographer shows up and…

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Interviews

Dr. Komisaruk: Talking about Orgasms with a Smart Person

February 20, 2013

Smart people are cool because they can tell us stuff we don’t know. The best kind of smart people are the ones who share information in a loving, guiding way because they enjoy sharing their knowledge with the world. The worst kind of smart people are the ones who are really condescending and intentionally make you feel like an idiot for not knowing stuff, and constantly tell you how disappointed they are by your “normal girl blogger-brain.” (Sorry—personal rant). Thankfully,…

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FUTURE OF LOVE

February 16, 2013

Come to the Body Actualized Center in Bushwick tonight for the “Future of Love: From Sex to Superconsciousness” symposium! I’m going be speaking on a panel with Daniel Pinchbeck, Labanna Babalon, and other sexologists, artists, tantrickas, philosophers, dommes, healers, etc. I’ll also be screening a video on “BDSM for the bedroom” and giving a little live Dominatrix performance as well. lol! CUM ALONG!

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Valentine’s Extravaganza(s)

February 13, 2013

Hey Sluts! Lots going on this V-day! Turns out sex bloggers are hot commodities on this grand, commercial day of love. Here’s what I’ll be up to over the next couple of days. It would be great if you could join me! . . Tonight I’m hosting a pre-Valentines Day film night at the Spectacle Theater–an art cinema in Williamsburg, Brooklyn. I’ll be showing a collection of classic erotic shorts, stag films, some of my fave sex scenes from movies,…

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Interviews

Dev Hynes: Sex, Comics and Voguing

February 10, 2013

I know I like to blab on and on about how great and cool Dev Hynes is, and how he’s the (musical) voice of our generation, but all of those things are true, so whatevs. I recently went to his apartment and asked him questions about all his stuff. Sandy Kim took photos. This interview originally appeared in Apartamento magazine. Devonté Hynes wears many masks: musician, producer, actor, nerd, comic whiz, synesthete, sex symbol, ostensible playboy. Today, he is perhaps…

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Pre-Valentines with Slutever at the Spectacle Theater!

February 6, 2013

Guess what? I’m hosting a pre-Valentines Day film night at the Spectacle Theater in Williamsburg. Yay! I’ll be showing a collection of classic erotic shorts, stag films, some of my fave sex scenes from movies, some random arty sexy stuff, and I’ll also be debuting an alluring new video I made for Purple magazine. And all of this will only cost you $5! And the theater sells cheap beer too. BARGAIN! The date is Wednesday, February 13th. Showtimes at 8pm…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

This Week in Pics: The Instagram Version

February 6, 2013

Yay, my phone goes online!!! After years of suffering at the hands of my flip phone, I FINALLY gave in and joined the technologically un-retarded masses. (One catalyst for the upgrade was when Sophia Lamar told me that no one at fashion week would want to sleep with me because my phone was so embarrassing.) But wow, having an iPhone is swell! It’s so nice that I no longer have to physically write down directions to where I’m going on…

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