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September 2013

Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever

September 29, 2013

Dear Slutever, My ex and I managed to stay friends after our rocky relationship and even rockier breakup, and have been sexting for about a year now, despite him having been been in a new relationship for a year and a half. I get that it’s wrong or whatever, but how do I get him to fuck me? I really miss our great physical chemistry, but he’s very unwilling to take the next step in our little tryst because he’s…

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Sexy Videos

Pussy Power

September 22, 2013

Me, naked with a gun obvs My friend, the fabulous Petra Collins, directed this new video for Purple TV. I’m in it. You can watch it below <3 We filmed it partly in Toronto, where Petra is from, and partly in an amazingly beautiful town called Tobermory, which is about four hours drive from Toronto, in Ontario, Canada. We stayed in Tobermory for three days, in a lovely cottage that belongs to Petra’s boyfriend, Avery. It’s way out in the…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Cum Tomorrow: Gyno Landscape!

September 19, 2013

If you’re in New York, you should come to this exhibition opening in tomorrow eve! It’s an all-female show, curated by the amazing Petra Collins and featuring artists like Sandy Kim, Coco Young, Jeanette Hayes Alice Lancaster, Jaimie Warren and more! Also I’m doing a live performance! (LOL) I don’t want to give too much about it away, but I’ll say that someone is def going to be getting whipped. Also, Petra and I are (or at least I think we are, anyway…) premiering a new short…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Future Sex Love Sounds

September 14, 2013

ET phone home… I get a lot of vibrators in the mail these days–a perk of being a “sex writer” (barf). I appreciate all the gifts, but I think my clit is potentially becoming desensitized. I’m scared that if I keep going on this way, pretty soon I won’t be able to make myself cum using my own hand. Is that possible? I guess I could Google it, but I’m too lazy. Feel free to make unresearched speculations in the…

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Interviews, Sex + Love Advice, Sexy Videos

Huff-Post Live: The Pull-Out Generation

September 12, 2013

Today I talked on a panel on the Huffington Post Live about ‘the pull-out method.’ The conversation was sparked by a recent article in New York mag titled “The Pull-Out Generation,” where the writer was surprised to find out how many young women are using this method of contraception over regular birth control. Joining me on the panel were sex educator and author of How To Be A Great Lover, Lou Paget; founder of The Center for Sexual Pleasure &…

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Sexy Videos

Drunk Kissing

September 2, 2013

We got drunk and made these experimental conceptual art films. They’re partially based on Andy Warhol’s film “Kiss,” except our films are more “now.”

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