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A Light Intro to BDSM

August 11, 2015
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Want to add some light, consensual violence into your sex life? Look no further. This cute and informative video, by Lessa Millet and Kaye Blegvad, is the perfect intro guide to the world of BDSM. Also, it’s pretty safe for work, because it’s all animation :)

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Vogue Column

Why Can’t Straight Men Talk About Sex?

August 6, 2015
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Our increasingly liberal society has created a space to talk about sexuality and relationships in an open, honest way. But who’s doing the talking? And how come when straight dudes talk about sex it usually seems creepy? Read my latest Breathless column for Vogue HERE :)

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Is Rashida Jones’s Porn Documentary Hot Girls Wanted a Slut-Shaming, Neo-Teen Exploitation Movie?

July 31, 2015
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Oh god, our sex-negative culture has spawned another work of anti-porn propaganda! In this article we look at what’s wrong with Hot Girls Wanted, an exploitative, slut-shaming documentary that perpetuates negative stereotypes about sex workers. And we even chat to legendary porn star Nina Hartley, yay! Co-authored by Kristen Cochrane and Karley Sciortino

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask a Sex Researcher

July 28, 2015
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This week, our resident sex advice columnist, Dr. Zhana Vrangalova, discusses insecurities about aging and sexual viability, as well as how to cope with a sexual encounter you’re not sure was very healthy.

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Vogue Column

Why Amy Schumer’s Slutty Feminism is Changing the World

July 23, 2015
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I’m like stalker-grade obsessed with Amy Schumer. I’m pretty sure I’ve watched every clip that exists of her online, even the awkward foreign TV appearances that are dubbed over in Chinese so I can’t even hear what’s going on. My latest Breathless column for Vogue is about why she’s an incredible person and feminist, and why being a radical slut is just generally a bad bitch move. Read it HERE :)

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