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April 11, 2013

Photo by Ryan McGinley Is it wrong to tell the person you’re dating that you wouldn’t mind if they gained a little weight?  I’ve been seeing a girl who is beautiful and very sweet, but I’ve always had a thing for girls who are a little curvier. I’m not saying there’s anything wrong with her–in fact, she’s damn near perfect–but if she happened to want to not worry about her weight so much and gain a few pounds by eating…

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Ask Slutever: The “I’m in a Bad Mood” Version

March 3, 2013

Young Steve Buscemi – I die Even bloggers get in bad moods sometimes. A few weeks ago I was feeling particularly misanthropic and wrote an Ask Slutever column for Jezebel that was slightly on the harsher side. My editor responded with something along the lines of, “WTF, why are you being such an angry bitch? We can publish this.” She was right–I was taking my cunty feelings out on the readers. How un-Zen of me! However, I figured it wouldn’t…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

February 22, 2013

Read my latest sex advice column, originally written for Jezebel! Hey. How do you manage your blackouts? Like, blackout drunk? Also, how would you deal with a somewhat famous dude who’s coked up and wanting pics of your naked body? Thanks, KC Wow, what a classy question. Look KC, being a blacked-out bar ho is not a sign of a strong feminist who’s in control of her destiny. Also, what if you’re blacked-out and a party photographer shows up and…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

February 2, 2013

Read the latest in my sex-and-dating advice column, originally for Jezebel! I’m a middle-aged man who recently went down the path of online dating — a path that’s sometimes new, sometimes efficient, often maddening. Many people deceive you with old pictures and inapt descriptions, but once in awhile things work out. Sort of. Unfortunately, there are no boxes in most dating site profiles for “sexual preferences,” which of course means there is no way to know if a woman swallows…

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Slutever Vaj T-shirt: Feminist Dilemmaz!

January 17, 2013

Dear Karley, I bought a shirt from you like six months ago and finally wore it out in public yesterday. I live in this small ~close minded~ city and a friend of my mum’s saw me and texted her about it. My mum is FREAKING OUT! I was all, “It’s a feminist statement,” but she doesn’t agree and thinks I’m anti women’s rights, etc. How do I explain to her what your vagina on a shirt even MEANS?! Help, Gemma…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

January 9, 2013

More sex and dating advice is here, yay! This column was originally for Jezebel! Say you met someone on the internet, had a blast and knocked it out of the park in the sack (his words…) You want to do it again, but it wasn’t implicit that you’d hang out or contact each other afterwards. How do you indicate you want to fool around again without sounding crazy or like a pathetic hobag? It’s been just over a week and…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

December 28, 2012

Photo by Martin Parr The latest in my sex and dating advice column, originally for Jezebel! If I’m being honest, my vagina doesn’t smell all that nice all the time. I get so self-conscious when boys put their faces down there. Like when you get wet, doesn’t it just smell and taste rank?! xoxo Stacey Once I was dating this random guy, aka my current boyfriend, and he was like, “I don’t want to go down on you because I…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

December 15, 2012

Read the latest installment of my sex and dating advice column, originally published in the girl-bible, Jezebel! I’m a 24-year-old girl and I’m freaking out about my sexuality. I’ve had sex with about 10 guys and have never even come close to having an orgasm during sex. Sensations feel good, especially if I’ve had a few drinks, but I’m starting to think I’m asexual or something since I can’t cum when I’m with a partner! PLEASE HELP! – Sarah Ninety…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel

November 30, 2012

By Daido Moriyama Should you put baking utensils up your butt? Are STDs sort of NBD TBH? Read my new(ish) sex advice column, originally for Jezebel! Dear Slutever, I do not engage in any sexual activity unless my prospective partner and I both get full STD testing. In the past five years, not one woman that I dated agreed to this. Why are so many women against getting tested prior to sex? Sincerely, Alan 

Hmm… that’s odd. I’m not familiar…

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Ask Slutever for Jezebel!

November 18, 2012

Pic @ Jonathan Leder Read my latest advice column, originally for Jezebel! I’m a 26-year-old European exchange student currently studying in the US for five months. I have a (relatively new) boyfriend back home who I’m totally into, and before I left we agreed to be monogamous. But now I have a dilemma: I love Chatroulette, and I usually skip over the random masturbating men, but recently I’ve been fantasizing about not skipping over the dicks and engaging in some…

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