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Save Yourself: 15 Slut-tastic Sex Facts

November 24, 2014
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  1. Vajonfidence means “vagina confidence.” (I made that up.) 2. Bad: 83% of U.S. teenagers have sex for the first time before receiving any formal sex education. 3. Good: Almost a third of all women over 80 years old still have sex with their spouse or boyfriend. 4. Rub some jiz on your face immediately, because sperm has a tightening effect on the skin–aka it’s the world’s cheapest anti-aging cream. 5. Sperm has other uses beyond being an affordable…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever

July 5, 2014

“How do I sleep around without getting burned?” I recently answered this in a special Ask Slutever for the The Debrief magazine. If you want to know the right way to be a slut, you can read my article HERE :) #SlutWisely

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever

November 7, 2013

Photo by Terry Richardson <3   Hi, I’ve been a huge fan of your blogs and you as a teenage boy growing up that has never been laid before (sadly, it’s true). I learn a lot from your videos and blog posts. Can you tell me more about how it feels like to have sex for the first time? Thank you! Ken Strong question Ken. Having sex for the first time can feel a variety of a different ways, though…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever

September 29, 2013

Dear Slutever, My ex and I managed to stay friends after our rocky relationship and even rockier breakup, and have been sexting for about a year now, despite him having been been in a new relationship for a year and a half. I get that it’s wrong or whatever, but how do I get him to fuck me? I really miss our great physical chemistry, but he’s very unwilling to take the next step in our little tryst because he’s…

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Interviews, Sex + Love Advice

Dating 101 with Marsha Rowe: Cheating Questions

August 9, 2013

Pic by Coco Young Last week I published an interview with feminist icon Marsha Rowe, where she and I talked about the history of feminism, body image and porn. However, during our original conversation, Marsha and I also talked a lot about relationships, specifically about cheating and non-monogamy. I didn’t include that bit of our convo in the original edit, just because the interview was already really long (Marsha, being very wise, just said too much good stuff to fit…

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Interviews, Sex + Love Advice

Teach Me How To Fuck: Dev Hynes

April 1, 2013

So we all know Dev Hynes is the coolest person ever. We all love his musical project Blood Orange, and he writes all of the best songs by our favorite artists like Solange, Sky Ferreria, Theophilus London, Florence and the Machine, etc, etc. However, this is a sex blog (I think?), not a music blog, and therefore we care far more about Dev’s sex life than his musical achievements, especially considering he’s a majorly relevant indie sex symbol. (Does that…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever for Jezebel

February 22, 2013

Read my latest sex advice column, originally written for Jezebel! Hey. How do you manage your blackouts? Like, blackout drunk? Also, how would you deal with a somewhat famous dude who’s coked up and wanting pics of your naked body? Thanks, KC Wow, what a classy question. Look KC, being a blacked-out bar ho is not a sign of a strong feminist who’s in control of her destiny. Also, what if you’re blacked-out and a party photographer shows up and…

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Interviews

Cindy Gallop: The Santa Claus of Good Sex

January 14, 2013

I recently interviewed the amazing Cindy Gallop who founded Make Love Not Porn! This originally appeared in Dazed mag. <3 Cindy Gallop wants you to have good sex, like, for real. In 2009 the New York City-based advertising executive gave a four-minute talk at a TED conference that became one of the event’s most talked about presentations. “I date younger men, predominantly men in their 20s,” was her opening line, and she went on to discuss the obvious influence of…

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