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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever for Jezebel

February 22, 2013

Read my latest sex advice column, originally written for Jezebel! Hey. How do you manage your blackouts? Like, blackout drunk? Also, how would you deal with a somewhat famous dude who’s coked up and wanting pics of your naked body? Thanks, KC Wow, what a classy question. Look KC, being a blacked-out bar ho is not a sign of a strong feminist who’s in control of her destiny. Also, what if you’re blacked-out and a party photographer shows up and…

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Interviews

Cindy Gallop: The Santa Claus of Good Sex

January 14, 2013

I recently interviewed the amazing Cindy Gallop who founded Make Love Not Porn! This originally appeared in Dazed mag. <3 Cindy Gallop wants you to have good sex, like, for real. In 2009 the New York City-based advertising executive gave a four-minute talk at a TED conference that became one of the event’s most talked about presentations. “I date younger men, predominantly men in their 20s,” was her opening line, and she went on to discuss the obvious influence of…

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Sex + Love Advice, VICE Slutever Show

Vice Slutever Show: Gray Area

October 26, 2012

God, sexuality can be so #confusing, right?! Like, how are we supposed to tell if we’re gay or not? In this episode, my recent sex dreams about my gurl crush, Mistress Amanda Whip, cause me to ponder, “In sex, does everything have to be black and white–“straight” or “gay”–or can we be somewhere in between, like, in the gray area? Clearly, the only way to solve this dilemma is with a LESBIAN MAKEOVER!!! This is my favorite Slutever episode to…

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Slutever’s “Sexytime Dilemmas” on Jezebel!

October 25, 2012

Photo by Marilyn Minter The second installment of my new advice column for Jezebel.com (aka the new feminist bible) is up! Now pasted below: I’ve always enjoyed sex and more recently have learned to practice safe sex. However, the other day I was trying to count how many partners I’ve had in my life and couldn’t do it! I feel like there are people I can’t remember. I also can’t remember who exactly I lost my virginity to, although I…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever

July 23, 2012

Photos by Sandy Kim I recently gave out some Slutever advice for Oyster magazine’s all-female issue. You can read it below. I also interviewed Aurel Schmidt for the same issue, which I posted a few weeks ago. If you can, get your hands on a copy! Totally amazing girlpower vibes! 1. Dear Slutever, My boyfriend has moved to Berlin for 5 months, but we’ve only been together for 3 weeks. What do I do if he asks me to take…

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VICE Slutever Show

VICE Slutever Show, ep1 – Dating 101

March 30, 2012

Finally! The VICE Slutever show is here! I really hope you like it. The first four episodes will air every Friday for the next month on vice.com. I’ve been making the show with my BFF, director/producer Adri Murguia (who also hosts stuff for Vice too, check THIS out). Not to be cheesy, but we feel really proud that this is the first ever show on Vice that is being made for girls by girls. That’s cool, right? I mean, all…

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20 Secrets (That Are Not Really Secrets) About Dating

March 22, 2012

Images via Happy 2 b Sad 1. Always remember to wash your hands in between eating hot sauce and masturbating. 2. Guys: Don’t stress out too much about the best way to ask a girl on a date. Realistically, if she likes you, she’ll say yes no matter what. And if she doesn’t, she’ll just make fun of you to all her friends behind your back. 3. Boys who own giant cars and/or motorcycles have small dicks. 4. If you’re…

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20 Secrets (that are not really secrets) About Dating

January 15, 2012

 Image via happy 2 b sad  1. Using a condom is like trying to eat an ice cream sundae with a latex bag over it. 2. That being said, I’d rather eat an infinity of latex covered desserts than have your child. 3. If you’re giving a blow-job and your mouth is really dry, all you have to do is shove the dick really far back into your throat so that you gag a little bit, and your mouth will…

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Dating 101: Pharrell Williams

December 18, 2011

Pharrell is one of the 20 cover stars for this month’s 20th anniversary issue of Dazed and Confused. I interviewed him about the future of music and his career or whatever, but as the conversation progressed we ended up talking about sex, fetish and losing your virginity (obviously), and I even got the chance to ask him some dating tips. Below is an edited version of the interview that appeared in the mag, with most of the music stuff taken…

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