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Interviews

Talking Domination on Gunwash

August 25, 2013

A few days ago, I was a guest on Gunwash, a trippy radio show that records from the radio station in Roberta’s restaurant in Brooklyn. (I didn’t even know there was a radio station inside Roberta’s??? Fascinating.) The topic of conversation was “Dominatrixes”–what a Domme does, what subs want, etc.–and there was also a lot of talk about the host Aaron’s own personal relationship problems. Lol. It wasn’t the most erudite conversation of all time, given that everyone in the…

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Vogue Column

Vogue, and Whether or Not to be Afraid of the Internet

May 14, 2013

  I originally wrote this article for Vogue (glamorous).  We live in a time when you can be fired for tweeting mean things about your boss, and you can get arrested for admitting on Facebook to driving drunk. A quick scroll through someone’s Instagram determines whether or not you should sleep with him or her. Social media has made it nearly impossible to separate our personal and professional lives, and like it or not, each of us is our own…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

gross but not boring

December 18, 2012

Pic by Nobuyoshi Araki Working as a Dominatrix, over time one becomes–how should I put it?–desensitized to one’s surroundings. This is nothing out of the ordinary. It’s easy to imagine that a neuroscientist, at the beginnings of his career, might find it difficult to scissor the head off of an innocent little mouse, but that eventually this would become second nature. Basically, what was once thought to be horrific, even evil, can in time become totally NBD—the sort of thing…

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Interviews

Mistress Amanda Whip

August 27, 2012

In the most recent episode of the VICE Slutever show, embeded into the post below this one, I spent a day with the pro-Domme Mistress Amanda Whip, and she gave me #sexy beginners lessons in “BDSM for the bedroom”. However, there were large parts of my interview with her–specifically the parts about how she got her start as a dominatrix, and her career thus far–that were edited out of the final cut of the episode. But it was all sooo…

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Sex + Love Advice, VICE Slutever Show

VICE Slutever Show: Love is Pain

August 24, 2012

Episode 1 of the second season of the VICE Slutever show is up! This time I revisit with Mistress Amanda Whip (who taught me about pee drinking in a previous episode), and she gives me lessons on BDSM for the bedroom. Kinky lolz! p.s. I make this show with the #glamorous Adri Murguia. It’s the only VICE show made for girls by girl! (But guys can watch too, duh.)

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Pee Smoothies

May 6, 2012

Don’t you hate it when you’re peeing into a guy’s mouth and he starts puking? GOD, fucking amateurs. Yesterday Mistress Dee and I were peeing on a guy, as per usual. Dee has been giving golden showers for years now and is famous within the scene for being able to piss for over two minutes straight. (She can control it so it comes out at a steady, medium-to-light flow.) But yesterday she had to go really bad, so she asked…

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