I’m starting to realize how different—and freakish—being single feels in your 30s. Read my latest Breathless for Vogue HERE :)
Last week I joined Dr. Zhana Vrangalova for a talk on cheating: How prevalent is infidelity? Do men cheat more than women? Why do people cheat, and what are the consequences? We break it ALL down in this talk. Watch the VIDEO of the presentation here :)
A book about a woman with a very unusual profession, and another book about a married man who’s trying to make it work… for better or for worse. By Karley Sciortino
The story of how one British school teacher with money troubles started over as a mature escort, re-discovered her sexuality, and unexpectedly fell in love—spoiler, Fifty Shades of Grey is involved :)
Am I jaded? Or am I just realistic? Or am I neither (aka delusional)? Read my latest Breathless for Vogue HERE :)
I visited a shaman to see if psychedelic drugs could cure my commitment phobia (lol).
When you’re in a serious, long-term relationship, the terms “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” can begin to feel a bit juvenile, or at least insufficient for describing your level of commitment. But what do you call the person you share a life with when you’re not married, and don’t necessarily want to be? By Erika Allen. Photo by Ryan McGinley.
Are bachelorette parties about gender equality, or are they about assaulting strangers and animals while dressed as a sexy baby? (Or both?) And when did bachelorettes become more debauched than bachelor parties? Read my latest Breathless column for Vogue HERE :)
When we decide to marry, are we choosing “the one” or a lifestyle? Read my latest Breathless column for Vogue, featuring much insight from Sarah Nicole Prickett, writer and founding editor of the erotic magazine Adult.
Above is a short film I made last year with my filmmaking pal, Robert Semmer. It’s called Domestic Bliss and it originally aired on Channel 4 in the UK, as part of their Random Acts short film series. You will see–if you decide to devote three minutes of your short life to watching this–that there is a mildly intimate moment toward the end of the video between myself and a young boy. The actor’s name is Lawrence and he’s the…