By Karley Sciortino// The erotic illustrations of Anja Slibar show the playful side of BDSM. They also make you want to get really good at tying bondage rope.
Want to add some light, consensual violence into your sex life? Look no further. This cute and informative video, by Lessa Millet and Kaye Blegvad, is the perfect intro guide to the world of BDSM. Also, it’s pretty safe for work, because it’s all animation :)
Helmut Newton In my latest Breathless column for Vogue I discuss whether it’s always better to have the upper hand in a relationship. The essay includes the story of when I was recently cheated on–tragic! Also, insightful words from Erika Allen, editor at the New York Times. Read it HERE :)