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Intro: Secret Diary of a Sugar Baby

March 5, 2015

Hi! I’m, well… I’ll call myself Claire. I grew up in LA, but I currently live in New York, where I work in a gallery. I’m 26, and have been a sugar baby for three years now. I suppose my years as a sugar baby have resulted in some pretty interesting experiences–everything from you’re average upscale, mundane dinners where I pretend to care about the stock market for the sake of my date, to ridiculous penthouse orgies, to awkwardly hot Swedish-maid…

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Slutever’s 5 Recommendations for Life

January 4, 2015

A few weeks ago I wrote a post where I recommended 5 wonderful pieces of internet that I felt had made me a smarter and/or happier person, or at least someone who’d be more interesting to talk to at a dinner party. You guys seemed to like it, so I’m doing it again. So, if you’re looking for a way to spend the precious final hours of this winter holiday, I suggest you watch, read and/or listen to the below: 1. Nick…

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Interviews

Southern Sex Food

May 26, 2014

The below was originally written as part of my “Sugar Babies” column for VICE. Tammy is 29 and lives in a suburb of Richmond, Virginia. As a day job, she works in the music industry, but she’s been been supplementing her income as a sugar baby for a few years now. We became internet friends about a year ago when she submitted an advice question to Ask Slutever, asking “When is the appropriate time to tell a guy you’re dating that…

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Interviews

Fading Gigolo: Chatting with John Turturro

April 30, 2014

John Turturro’s new movie, Fading Gigolo, stars him as a hooker and Woody Allen as his pimp. The movie is really sweet, and sends what I think is a great message about sex work. I recently interviewed Turturro for The Guardian, and we had an interesting discussion about selling sex that you can read by clicking HERE. P.S. Sorry my blog has mainly become just a bunch of links to read my stuff other places, but a girl’s gotta make some…

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Interviews

An NYC Sugar Baby’s Guide to Eating Out

April 24, 2014

The below was originally written as part of my “Sugar Babies” column for VICE: Madeline is a 24-year-old artist living in New York. She’s been supplementing her income by dating men she meets on sugar daddy websites for over three years. I interviewed Madeline about her nightly exploits about a year ago, and we’ve since become close friends. She’s always making me jealous with all her stories about the fancy restaurants and bars she goes to on her sugar dates,…

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Interviews

Am I Normal? – Sex Work in the Deep South

March 8, 2014

Rose is a 27 year old escort living in rural Tennessee. She’s been in the business for three years, and also works an office job. I talked to her about the challenges of being a sex worker in a small town, and living a double life. How and why did you get into escorting? Rose: I’ve actually had an interest in doing it since I was young. Then, a few years ago I became friends with a girl and one…

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Am I Normal? – High Class Escort

October 9, 2013

Belle is a 23-year-old prostitute. She’s been selling sex for more than two years, primarily sleeping with men she meets through sugar daddy websites. She talked to me about her life sleeping with Saudi princes, attending paid orgies, and the truth about men who pay for sex. Slutever: So how long have you been fucking people for money? Belle: Since I was 20. For a long time before that I’d had a prostitution fetish. I was living in London at…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever: Ask a Whore

July 23, 2013

Belle de Jour Once in a while I’ll enlist a friend of mine to act as a “guest expert” and answer some of my Ask Slutever questions for me. This is usually because I’m either too busy, or too lazy, or sometimes literally just because I don’t feel like doing it myself. No offense, but after a while I get bored of reading though essentially the same emails over and over–“Why doesn’t my boyfriend want to have sex with me…

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Girls Girls Girls?

July 11, 2013

What’s it like being a chick in the Big Apple? Sex and the City made a great effort to tackle this complicated question some fifteen years ago now. More recently, Girls has taken up the cause. However, if you’ve seen both of those shows and you still don’t feel like you’ve got enough info about what life is like as a vagina-clad human being living in NYC, then you should check out the e-book GIRLS?, recently published by Thought Catalog.…

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