Sometimes dating feels like a competition of who can give less of a shit. What happens when you suck at that game? Basically, what is the secret to chilling the fuck out? By Misha Scott.
Dear Slutever, I’ve done the whole ‘go out on the weekend and hook-up with a different guy each time.’ I’ve had fuck buddies and casual hookups. I’ve tried celibacy. But all along I’ve wanted to be in a real, serious, monogamous relationship and I’ve settled for these other things because I couldn’t get what I really wanted. Now, I really really want it. But no one is giving me a chance. Not one guy I’ve liked and who I thought…
Last summer, artist Petra Collins published an art book called Babe—a curated book of artwork by female artists of her choosing, with a forward written by Tavi Gevinson. The bright and beautiful book deals with femininity, sexuality, and teenage life, and you can see a more extensive sneak peek of it here. Below is my contribution to the book, which is my personal “Life To-Do List”. Feel free to steal some of my goals :) – Karley Sciortino
I visited a shaman to see if psychedelic drugs could cure my commitment phobia (lol).
For my latest Vogue piece, I did a recap of all the best sex stuff that happened in 2015 (aka the year that LOVE WON) from the year’s sexiest movies, to the best TED Talk on relationships, to the pop culture icons who are revolutionizing the way we think about sexual identity. Read it HERE :) – Karley Sciortino
The most relevant 21 Century question: to ghost or not to ghost? Tis the modern dating dilemma! And what happens to the ghosted? And is it ever morally OK to ghost? So many questions! (Almost) all answered in my latest Breathless for Vogue, which you can read HERE :)
When you’re in a serious, long-term relationship, the terms “boyfriend” and “girlfriend” can begin to feel a bit juvenile, or at least insufficient for describing your level of commitment. But what do you call the person you share a life with when you’re not married, and don’t necessarily want to be? By Erika Allen. Photo by Ryan McGinley.
By Karley Sciortino / pic Ellen von Unwerth / It’s good to know what’s going on in the world… ish. From now on, I’m going to help keep you informed on what’s happening outside of your apartment, at least in the world of sex and relationships. Here’s the first installment of my weekly sex roundup!
Sexting is an important life skill. And it’s no simple task. Summer is here, and the stakes are high, people! My latest Breathless for Vogue is about the dos and don’ts of the modern love letter. Read it HERE :)
A personal essay about that first time you see an ex after a breakup, by Kathleen French / When C. came over she hugged me for too long, not that it registered that way. The people you must keep around, always, are the ones that insist on hugging you for too long when the time calls for it. Then she looked me up and down and wordlessly set her things on my desk, queuing up a 1930s bluegrass station through some…