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Interviews, Sexy Videos

People Who Just Had Sex: Deep Gay Love

October 29, 2014
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The new episode of People Who Just Had Sex is out, yay! If you’re unfamiliar with the series, the idea is simple–we go to people’s houses and talk to them before they fuck, wait around while they fuck, and then interview them again after they fuck.  In this episode I meet Tobias and Brian, a Brooklyn couple who have had particularly unique and experimental sexual histories—from gay porn auditions, to Tobias losing his virginity on a plane, to three-way relationships, to a…

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Vogue Column

Sex Toys Are The New Couples Therapy

October 9, 2014

Is a knife a sex toy? Pic by Michel Comte for Purple :) Sci-fi masturbation machines, lesbian tool kits, boyfriends who are scared of your vibrator, the appropriate time to introduce your horsetail butt-plug to your new crush, and other stories… Read my latest Breathless column for Vogue HERE :)

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Interviews

Do Gurls like Toys More than Boyz?

September 4, 2014

This was originally written for VICE.com On the most recent episode of VICE’s People Who Just Had Sex, I interviewed a dominatrix named Samantha and her longterm boyfriend about bondage, love-making and masturbation. What didn’t make it into the edit was our conversation about how, judging from our own sexual experiences, women tend to be more comfortable using sex toys than men, both during sex and masturbation. But why is that? I literally have a giant bag full of fake vaginas in my…

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Interviews, Sexy Videos

People Who Just Had Sex: A Domme and her BF

July 22, 2014

I’m hosting the new season of VICE’s series People Who Just Had Sex, yay! If you’re unfamiliar with the series, the idea is simple–we go to people’s houses and talk to them before they fuck, wait around while they fuck, and then interview them again after they fuck. In this episode we meet Samantha and Thomas–they’ve been dating since 2009, she’s a dominatrix, and they are both incredibly hot. Enjoy! 

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Celebratory Masturbation

June 6, 2014

May was national masturbation month. If, unlike me, your Facebook friends aren’t almost exclusively feminist bloggers and people who make vagina-based art, your FB feed may not have informed you of that important fact. In celebration, my new article for VICE lists some of my favorite facts and musings on the subject. Read it HERE :)

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Future Sex Love Sounds

September 14, 2013

ET phone home… I get a lot of vibrators in the mail these days–a perk of being a “sex writer” (barf). I appreciate all the gifts, but I think my clit is potentially becoming desensitized. I’m scared that if I keep going on this way, pretty soon I won’t be able to make myself cum using my own hand. Is that possible? I guess I could Google it, but I’m too lazy. Feel free to make unresearched speculations in the…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Good Vibes all Around @ Opening Ceremony

August 5, 2013

 Me posing with my toyz. Pics by Matthew Kelly I reviewed the new Tenga Iroha sex toys for Opening Ceremony. Now re-posted below: Being a sex writer, erotic brands often send me things like vibrators and other sex paraphernalia, hoping I’ll give their product a shout-out somewhere on this grand ol’ internet. More often than not I only try the toy once before deciding that it sucks, and then throw it behind my bed where it stays forever in what…

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