
Pink is a 42 year old part-time nanny and full-time kinkster from Seattle, Washington. She and her husband have been in a polyamorous relationship for 12 years. About a year ago Pink started dating Patrick, an employee of the US government and a quadriplegic. She has since become Patrick’s sex slave, and serves him in every way he sees fit—sucking blood into his penis to make it hard, helping him have bowel movements, etc. Pink talked to me about her life of submission.
How did you meet Patrick?
We met at The Center for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle. At first when he rolled up to me I thought, “What does this guy have to offer me? I want a dominant male who will have his way with me, and this guy can’t do much of anything.” But we spent a lot of time talking and though I didn’t think much of it, in the weeks that followed I kept thinking about him and coming up with things I wanted to see if he could do. Two months later I ran into him at the center again, and he asked if I wanted to get in the cuddle pile with him, where we started to cuddle and make out. Man he is the best kisser ever!
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What’s the cuddle pile?
It’s a pile of people on the floor cuddling. They have cuddle piles at the center on Wednesdays at a night called The Hump.
Sounds cute. When did your relationship become more serious?
After that we started meeting at The Hump for make-out time, and soon I started to fall in love with him. I begged him to spend more time with me, but Patrick’s time is not always free because he must devote every other day to having a bowel movement. This is something we all take for granted, but Patrick can’t do it on his own. So I decide to ask if I could help out with this task so I could spend more time with him. He gave me permission, and then he trained me on what needed to be done.
What needs to be done?
Bowel program (BP) takes about 3 hours. I move Patrick into his bed and lube up his rectum and insert an enema. Then I move him from his bed to his potty chair and he uses a sliding board to push on his belly. After 30 minutes I put on gloves again, lube up my finger and stick it in his rectum, then swirl my finger around inside of him so it relaxes the sphincter and allows the poop to flow out easier. This process is repeated every 30 minutes until we run out of poop. Then I give him a shave and a shower, and put on his night bag for his pee, and move him into bed.
It’s a pile of people on the floor cuddling. They have cuddle piles at the center on Wednesdays at a night called The Hump.
Sounds cute. When did your relationship become more serious?
After that we started meeting at The Hump for make-out time, and soon I started to fall in love with him. I begged him to spend more time with me, but Patrick’s time is not always free because he must devote every other day to having a bowel movement. This is something we all take for granted, but Patrick can’t do it on his own. So I decide to ask if I could help out with this task so I could spend more time with him. He gave me permission, and then he trained me on what needed to be done.
What needs to be done?
Bowel program (BP) takes about 3 hours. I move Patrick into his bed and lube up his rectum and insert an enema. Then I move him from his bed to his potty chair and he uses a sliding board to push on his belly. After 30 minutes I put on gloves again, lube up my finger and stick it in his rectum, then swirl my finger around inside of him so it relaxes the sphincter and allows the poop to flow out easier. This process is repeated every 30 minutes until we run out of poop. Then I give him a shave and a shower, and put on his night bag for his pee, and move him into bed.
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In what ways does Patrick dominate you?
Being of slave nature, there are rules in Patrick’s house that I must follow. Here are just a few of them: I must be naked at all times; I am paid in jelly beans and am only allowed to have 10 jelly beans a day; I am not aloud to ask for time with him, I must wait until he says I may be in his presence.
I had to have special tools made so that Patrick can control me physically. For example I had some Velcro bracelets made with claws on them, so that when I’m on top of him and in his arms he can bite me like a vampire, and if I try to get away he can dig the claws into my back and they keep me right where he wants me. Patrick has full range of motion with his arms, but his hands are stuck in a fist-like manner and he can’t feel with his fingers. But he can use a long chain and twirl it around his wrist to get up speed and then hit me with it. At first we used keys on it but they drew blood, so now he uses a piece of leather and it stings like a whip but doesn’t draw blood like the keys did. Another tool he uses is a 5ft bamboo cane. We can slide the cane into his closed fist and he can swing it like a true slugger. Man that one hurts, and leave welts too!
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Do you love it?
Yes! I have always wanted to be kinky, submissive slave. I want to feel the power of a man taking what he wants from me, and I enjoy the discipline and the pain that comes with serving a skilled and spirited Dom. Treat me like your slut, treat me like your slave, but always remember that I am a human being, and a woman.
Are you able to have sex at all?
Well Patrick can’t sit up on his own. In fact he can’t feel anything below his nipple line on his chest, and he can’t get an erection. But I want to feel him touch me and to have orgasms that he gives me, so I can pull him on top of me and slide his finger inside me as I masturbate. Oh it’s heavenly!
What about intromission?
When we started dating I asked him if it would ever be possible for us to have real sex and he said yes, but the key was to find him with morning wood. So then I started to stay the night with him and BINGO, he got hard! We have had sex about 15 times in the year we have been together. I get about 5 minutes in the mornings were I get to climb on top and feel him inside me. I can also suck a lot of blood in to his shaft and squeeze the base to keep it nice and hard.
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What kinky stuff does Patrick order you to do?
Patrick wants to be suspended in bondage, so I’m currently trying to learn about suspension techniques so that I can tie him up in the air and suck on his cock, or spin him around until he gets dizzy. I have to have slings made for him as we are not sure about rope—it can leave rope burns and cut off circulation, so this is still a work in progress. I have also been working on milking his prostate.
How cum?
My goal is to taste Patrick’s cum one day, but he doesn’t ejaculate and hasn’t seen his own cum since before he broke his neck in a skiing accident at age 14. But then recently, while doing bowel program, I found his prostate and gave it a few rubs. I wasn’t trying to milk it and nothing happened at first, but about an hour later when we were in the shower his penis started to squirt white fluid. I asked him if it was cum and he said he wasn’t sure and thought it may be something else, but I think it might have been a delayed ejaculation.
Patrick wants to be suspended in bondage, so I’m currently trying to learn about suspension techniques so that I can tie him up in the air and suck on his cock, or spin him around until he gets dizzy. I have to have slings made for him as we are not sure about rope—it can leave rope burns and cut off circulation, so this is still a work in progress. I have also been working on milking his prostate.
How cum?
My goal is to taste Patrick’s cum one day, but he doesn’t ejaculate and hasn’t seen his own cum since before he broke his neck in a skiing accident at age 14. But then recently, while doing bowel program, I found his prostate and gave it a few rubs. I wasn’t trying to milk it and nothing happened at first, but about an hour later when we were in the shower his penis started to squirt white fluid. I asked him if it was cum and he said he wasn’t sure and thought it may be something else, but I think it might have been a delayed ejaculation.
Does Patrick’s disability ever get in the way of him being a good Dom?
I don’t think the disability gets in the way, but he’s gone through years of training himself to be nice and kind to everyone around him, so sometimes it’s hard for him to say things to me that I want to hear, like, “Be a good little slut and suck my cock.” But I guess that’s more to do with his personality than his disability.
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What do you do when you’re not serving Patrick?
I work full time as a nanny. I truly enjoy serving the families I work for, and caring for their children. Also I am a wife and a mother.
Is there any jealousy between you and your husband because of Patrick?
My husband and I have been married for 16 years, and have been polyamorous for more than 12. My husband has 3 girlfriends and I have just Patrick right now, but I have been looking for another boyfriend for about 9 months. We have found that no one person can fulfill all of our needs, and every new person we add to our lives gives us something new and different than the last. There is no jealousy between my husband and I. He loves to see me happy, and we still have sexy all the time. I love him and will be his wife forever.
What about Patrick? Does he want you all to himself?
No. In fact he goes out dancing and picks up new girls every weekend. At first I was scared I would lose him to some other girl but then I realized that none of the other girls would make it past a month or so before he asked them to leave. Patrick never wants to get married. In fact after devoting myself to him for more than a year he has never said I love you to me. He tells me that he doesn’t feel love like other people. He considers himself a single slut.
I work full time as a nanny. I truly enjoy serving the families I work for, and caring for their children. Also I am a wife and a mother.
Is there any jealousy between you and your husband because of Patrick?
My husband and I have been married for 16 years, and have been polyamorous for more than 12. My husband has 3 girlfriends and I have just Patrick right now, but I have been looking for another boyfriend for about 9 months. We have found that no one person can fulfill all of our needs, and every new person we add to our lives gives us something new and different than the last. There is no jealousy between my husband and I. He loves to see me happy, and we still have sexy all the time. I love him and will be his wife forever.
What about Patrick? Does he want you all to himself?
No. In fact he goes out dancing and picks up new girls every weekend. At first I was scared I would lose him to some other girl but then I realized that none of the other girls would make it past a month or so before he asked them to leave. Patrick never wants to get married. In fact after devoting myself to him for more than a year he has never said I love you to me. He tells me that he doesn’t feel love like other people. He considers himself a single slut.
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http://www.viceland.com/blogs/en/2011/05/26/a-quadriplegic-civil-servant-keeps-me-as-his-slave/ ??
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wait the guy patrick is a quadriplegic yet he goes out dancing every weekend picking up girlS??? UMM he is in a wheel chair like christopher reeves and he hits clubs? like what kind of clubs also i doubt every weekend he picks up ladies
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