This Week in Sex: Shadowbans, Gaybies, & Mary Gaitskill

How do you prepare for bottoming, according to the experts? Where do gaybies come from? Is there still Sex in the City? This and more in our weekly #sexnews :) Happy reading, sluts!

VICE’s Daisy Jones made the definitive guide to strap-ons, from getting the right length and girth to getting comfortable by wearing it around the house (and not buying on Amazon!).

A Greek Orthodox bishop made headlines by very incorrectly claiming that gay men are caused by their pregnant mothers having anal sex. But where do gaybies really come from?

Witness the shabby glamour of Colombian sex motels through these photographs, taken in the city of Cali where sex work is legal.

Heavy on PiV, light on foreplay, impractical and lacking in female orgasms, how did Hollywood movie sex get so unnatural?

New Nowness short film ‘LoveSick: Heartbreak Thunder’ explores the depths of breakups ;(

Autostraddle reviewed Fun Factory’s VOLTA vibrator, which has fluttering tips and a lock button so it doesn’t go off in your suitcase when you travel.

Before “they,” there was thon, hip, hiser, and hem. Whatever the word, a new study of 3,000 Swedes indicates that gender neutral terms do reduce gender bias.

Here’s the T: your wedding is next year, but you and your fiance have not had sex in 7 months. WWYD?

A recent study shows that 1 in 8 of men who have sex with men identify as heterosexual.

Alicia Rodis is the “lead intimacy coordinator” at HBO, which is a real thing, and she spends her time choreogroaphing sex scenes. But a lot has changed since #MeToo movement, even in fictional worlds.

The crafting and sex toy community have formed an unholy alliance, and now you can build your own ceramic dildo at workshops like KinkCraft.

Candace Bushnell has released her new memoir about dating in your 50s and 60s, “Is There Still Sex in the City?” Unfortunately, the answer seems to be “no.”

One woman found her vulvodynia disappeared when she broke up with her boyfriend. #VaginaWisdom?

Kristen Roupenian, viral author of “Cat Person,” discusses comparisons between her work and Slutever fave Mary Gaitskill’s iconic, “Bad Behaviour.” While flattering, is it a curse for a female fiction writer to be defined by sex?

If you ask porn actor Ty Mitchelll, prepping for bottoming has more to do with regular clean eating than starving the night before. And douching too much is bad for you, according to a Director of Anal Health (which is a real thing). So stop freaking out about poop during anal sex! No need to overdo(ouche) it ;)

Historical snoopers found a parchment containing a convo between a woman and her vulva, dating from the year 1300. Nothing like medieval vag!

Here are 27 lesbian sex tips that porn (definitely) won’t teach you.

Sessi Kuwabra Blanchard discusses the complicated legacy of passing while trans. 

Joshua Harris wrote the book on Christian abstinence. Literally! It’s called I Kissed Dating Goodbye and teaches that you should get married BEFORE you get to know someone, which makes total sense. As a preacher, he also rallied against marriage equality. But, now divorced, he has lost his faith, denounced his book and publicly apologized to the LGBT community.

Is Instagram “shadowbanning” content made by sex workers?



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