I’m guest on Alexi Wasser’s new podcast, Love Alexi, on the Nerdist network—yay! Alexi is the author of the amazing relationship website I’m Boy Crazy, which I have been a fan of since I was like 21. Alexi used to host a call-in sex advice radio show (that I was a guest on last year), but now she’s started a new podcast, and it’s bigger and better than ever. Below you can listen to us talk about sex, dating, being…
A couple want to find a unicorn for a threesome, and a high school girl wants to know how to push it to the next level with her close friend. By Karley Sciortino. Pic by Ellen Von Unwerth
1. Vajonfidence means “vagina confidence.” (I made that up.) 2. Bad: 83% of U.S. teenagers have sex for the first time before receiving any formal sex education. 3. Good: Almost a third of all women over 80 years old still have sex with their spouse or boyfriend. 4. Rub some jiz on your face immediately, because sperm has a tightening effect on the skin–aka it’s the world’s cheapest anti-aging cream. 5. Sperm has other uses beyond being an affordable…
Three months deep into my break-up, I’ve entered the dating phase… and man, it can be a nightmare. Read my latest Breathless column for Vogue here :)
“How do I sleep around without getting burned?” I recently answered this in a special Ask Slutever for the The Debrief magazine. If you want to know the right way to be a slut, you can read my article HERE :) #SlutWisely
Photo by Terry Richardson <3 Hi, I’ve been a huge fan of your blogs and you as a teenage boy growing up that has never been laid before (sadly, it’s true). I learn a lot from your videos and blog posts. Can you tell me more about how it feels like to have sex for the first time? Thank you! Ken Strong question Ken. Having sex for the first time can feel a variety of a different ways, though…
Dear Slutever, My ex and I managed to stay friends after our rocky relationship and even rockier breakup, and have been sexting for about a year now, despite him having been been in a new relationship for a year and a half. I get that it’s wrong or whatever, but how do I get him to fuck me? I really miss our great physical chemistry, but he’s very unwilling to take the next step in our little tryst because he’s…
Pic by Coco Young Last week I published an interview with feminist icon Marsha Rowe, where she and I talked about the history of feminism, body image and porn. However, during our original conversation, Marsha and I also talked a lot about relationships, specifically about cheating and non-monogamy. I didn’t include that bit of our convo in the original edit, just because the interview was already really long (Marsha, being very wise, just said too much good stuff to fit…
I gave some/minimal/questionable/conceptual dating advice on a V magazine web show, hosted by Casey Jane Ellison (aka Case Case). You can watch it above. (Don’t judge me?)
So we all know Dev Hynes is the coolest person ever. We all love his musical project Blood Orange, and he writes all of the best songs by our favorite artists like Solange, Sky Ferreria, Theophilus London, Florence and the Machine, etc, etc. However, this is a sex blog (I think?), not a music blog, and therefore we care far more about Dev’s sex life than his musical achievements, especially considering he’s a majorly relevant indie sex symbol. (Does that…
