How can I be a slut without being terrified of STDs? What are my actual chances of getting HIV? Should I ever give a BJ with a condom? Here, Dr. Zhana—sex researcher and the human sexuality professor at NYU—tells us everything we need to know. Continue reading “Ask a Sex Researcher: How Can I Be a Slut Without Getting an STD?”
This Week in Sex: January 28
Weekly sex news from Slutever. This week’s link roundup touches on everything from guerilla porn to erotic podcasts to finding lesbian sex in stock photography. Happy reading, sluts!
Can I Be a Self-Sufficient, #Empowered Woman and Still Enjoy It When a Guy Picks Up the Check?
Look, I’m a feminist or whatever, but I still like it when a guy picks up the check on a date. Should I kill myself? My latest Breathless for Vogue is about the economics of dating. By Karley Sciortino. Continue reading “Can I Be a Self-Sufficient, #Empowered Woman and Still Enjoy It When a Guy Picks Up the Check?”
Anti-Penetration
Our cultural definition of sex is very dick-centric. But there’s a lot of ways to have fun that don’t involve sticking it in. By Karley Sciortino Continue reading “Anti-Penetration”
How Did I Become the Last Single Person in My Friend Group?
I’m starting to realize how different—and freakish—being single feels in your 30s. Read my latest Breathless for Vogue HERE :)
How NOT to Breakup with Someone
While there is no nice way to dump someone, there are certainly unnecessarily horrific ways. My latest Breathless column details some particularly sadistic breakups :) Continue reading “How NOT to Breakup with Someone”
Am I Addicted to Sex Addicts?
My new column for Vogue is about my history of being attracted to sex maniacs. But what IS it about sex maniacs that is so darn sexy? Read here :)
The Benefits of a Random Hookup
We’ve all been endlessly briefed on the benefits of sleeping with someone we love, but what can we get out of fucking a totally random person (besides feeling like a slutty secret agent)? By Karley Sciortino. Image by Petra Collins. Continue reading “The Benefits of a Random Hookup”
3 Things we can Learn from Rick Owens and Michele Lamy’s Outré Relationship
Here at Slutever, we die for unconventional relationship dynamics. The new photobook, Rick Owens: Furniture, gives us a look at the aspirational partnership between designers Rick Owens and Michele Lamy. By Kristen Cochrane. Continue reading “3 Things we can Learn from Rick Owens and Michele Lamy’s Outré Relationship”
The Self-Flagellation of My Eternal Sugar Daddy Hunt
It’s not a coincidence that a rather large percentage of female artists today are current or former sex workers. Here, art perv Maidenfed documents her search for the human lottery ticket known as the “sugar daddy.” Main image of Maidenfed by Ian Reid. Continue reading “The Self-Flagellation of My Eternal Sugar Daddy Hunt”