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Sex + Love Advice

Slutever + Dr. Zhana on HuffPost’s Love + Sex Podcast – 11 Awkward Sex Questions

June 4, 2015

What the F is a “dry orgasm?” Why is MILF porn so unbelievably popular? What should you do when anal sex unexpectedly gets messy (and what can you do to help make sure it doesn’t)? Dr. Zhana (AKA Slutever’s “Ask a Sex Researcher” and I went on HuffPost’s “Love + Sex” podcast to answer 11 sex questions that you might be too shy to ask your friends.

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Masturbation Report: Stats on Self-Love

May 19, 2015

Words: Karley Sciortino / Photo: Ellen von Unwerth / Did you know that May is National Masturbation Month? Yeah, it’s random, and I don’t really understand the point (isn’t every month masturbation month?), but let’s just go with it. In celebration of self-love, the sex toy brand We Vibe did their first ever national masturbation report. They talked to 600 men and women across the United states, ranging from age 20-70, identifying as single, in a relationship or married, and the…

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Interviews, Sex + Love Advice

Ask A Porn Star: Kayden Kross

April 23, 2015

By Vera Papisova / When I told my friends I was going to start this column, Kayden Kross was the girl all the boys wanted me to interview. She is one of porn’s most coveted treasures, and a few years ago she landed one of the highest-paying performing contracts in the industry. She’s kind of a big deal.  Did I mention she’s been published in the New York Times? (It’s a great personal essay that was part of the Modern…

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever: Help! I Can’t Stop Faking It!

March 19, 2015

Photo by Stephen Shore Help! I’m a liar! I’ve had a casual on/off sex relationship with this guy for over a year and it’s always been really laid back and easy: when we find ourselves in the same place we have sex 24/7 till one of us leaves town. Recently, though, things have been getting more emotional and I’ve been having feelings beyond just sexual attraction. I want to try dating him, but there is one big thing holding me…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Celebratory Masturbation

June 6, 2014

May was national masturbation month. If, unlike me, your Facebook friends aren’t almost exclusively feminist bloggers and people who make vagina-based art, your FB feed may not have informed you of that important fact. In celebration, my new article for VICE lists some of my favorite facts and musings on the subject. Read it HERE :)

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Vogue Column

Breathless: Does Size Matter?

January 4, 2014

Have you ever boned a small peen? Does size matter, or is it just one of those “issues” we are taught to care about? How small is too small? Also, how many penises can a normal female mouth fit into itself at one time? I answer almost all of those questions in my most recent Vogue column. Read it HERE!

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Sex + Love Advice

Ask Slutever: How Does One Lesbian?

December 31, 2013

Pic from the new erotic publication Fetishisms Manifesto Vol 1  I’m 21, living in Wellington New Zealand, and I’ve come to the conclusion that I’m actually a lesbian. So… how does one go about lesbianing? I’ve told my friends about my lesbianonic intentions, and honestly everyone gives like zero fucks and is like “grrrl, go get that pussy,” but how do I actually embark on that? I want to bone someone who looks like they could be in Haim, or…

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Rants, Feelings & Opinions

Future Sex Love Sounds

September 14, 2013

ET phone home… I get a lot of vibrators in the mail these days–a perk of being a “sex writer” (barf). I appreciate all the gifts, but I think my clit is potentially becoming desensitized. I’m scared that if I keep going on this way, pretty soon I won’t be able to make myself cum using my own hand. Is that possible? I guess I could Google it, but I’m too lazy. Feel free to make unresearched speculations in the…

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